How each Myers & Briggs personality type flirts with you

Some personality types are natural flirts (ahem, we’re looking at you ENFPs and ESFPs) and some are a little more reserved. Today we take a look at how each of the 16 Myers & Briggs personality types flirts with you. 

INFP
INFPs can be quite shy when it comes to flirting and they often come across as aloof, especially with people they’ve only just met. Expect some blushing and stumbling over their words. Once they get to know you better, their playful side will come out and they’ll seem much flirtier. If an INFP likes you, they’ll ask you all sorts of (sometimes weird!) questions. 

ENFP
ENFPs are one of the flirtiest personality types as a result of their warm, open and playful nature. They are people-oriented and curious individuals. These two traits combined mean that they often ask people a lot of questions, which can come across as flirty, even when they don’t mean to be.  

INFJ
INFJs aren’t naturally flirty. They get quite nervous when it comes to flirting and it takes them a long time to open up. If an INFJ likes you, they’ll listen intently to your every word to try and figure you out. They’ll skip the small talk and jump straight to the deeper questions.

ENFJ
ENFJs are definitely flirty. They naturally focus their attention on others and this can come across as flirting, even when they aren’t. ENFJs are charismatic and caring. If an ENFJ likes you, they’ll make sure that you have everything you need and will keep a close eye on you to make sure you’re happy. 

INTP
INTPs are not flirty people. If they could, they’d skip the flirting and move on to a meaningful relationship with someone that they truly connect with. If an INTP likes you, they’ll be naturally curious to discover more about you and they’ll also help try to solve your problems. 

ENTP 
ENTPs are certainly flirty people. They have an air of confidence and a playful nature. ENTPs aren’t afraid to tease you. ENTPs have a knack for reading people and know how to push their buttons. They’re witty and joke around a lot, but even more so around people they fancy. 

INTJ
INTJs are one of the less flirty personality types. They tend to be direct and the nuances of flirting don’t come naturally to them. However, if an INTJ likes you, they’ll ask a lot of questions to try and determine if you’d be a good match long-term. They like to plan far into the future and they won’t waste their time with someone they don’t think is right.

ENTJ
ENTJs can be flirty when they want to be. They tend to be the ones initiating the flirting and if they like someone, they’ll let them know. If an ENTJ is initiating dates and wants to spend time with you, it’s a sign that they like you because they don’t waste time with someone that they don’t think is a good match.

ISFJ
ISFJs are not obviously flirty. They tend to be reserved, especially with people they don’t know well. But if an ISFJ likes you, they’ll pay close attention to you. They will help you as much as possible and make sure that you have all your needs met. 

ESFJ
ESFJs are flirty personality types. They are naturally empathetic and sociable. Moreover, showing physical affection comes naturally to ESFJs.  If an ESFJ likes you, they’ll want to spend a lot of time with you and make sure that you’re happy. They might not make the first move though.

ISTJ
ISTJs do not enjoy flirting. Being practical and direct, they’d prefer not to play games and instead be upfront about their intentions. However, they’re traditional and if an ISTJ likes you, they’ll do things like pick you up to escort you to your date and book dinner at a romantic restaurant.

ESTJ
ESTJs are flirty in a direct way. They are confident and will often be the ones making the first move. ESTJs certainly aren’t shy when it comes to flirting and subtle moves are not their style. If an ESTJ likes you, they’ll make it known and you won’t be left guessing. 

ISFP
ISFPs are flirty once they get to know you. If they like you, it might not be obvious because they can be quite shy, especially at first. But after a while, they’ll come out of their shell and be their naturally playful and easy-going selves. 

ESFP
ESFPs are one of the flirtiest personality types. They are bold, spontaneous and fun, which is the ultimate recipe for flirting. ESFPs are naturally charming and love to use this skill with people that they like. You’ll know if an ESFP likes you because they aren’t afraid to show it.

ISTP
ISTPs are not flirty individuals. They are quietly confident and it’s not that they get nervous, but flirting just doesn’t come naturally to them. If an ISTP likes you, it might not be obvious because they often treat friends and people they like in a similar way. They might tease you in an attempt to flirt.

ESTP
ESTPs are definitely flirty. They instinctively know how to charm people and they love to use these skills. ESTPs are confident and it’s highly likely that they’ll make the first move. If an ESTP likes you, you won’t be sitting there wondering if that’s the case. 

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