INFJ: So Thoughtful!

INFJs are the rarest personality type. They have a mystical air about them that many find intriguing and their desire to help others is a core part of who they are. One of the unique qualities of INFJs is that they’re able to translate their visions into carefully considered plans, and then take steps to execute them.

INFJs are exceptionally talented at reading people. They can often sense someone’s mood the moment they walk into a room, which is a both a blessing and a curse. It plays a part in why INFJs are so empathetic and kind, but it can also be overwhelming. Despite being people-orientated, they often require considerable amounts of alone time, shielded from the emotions of others, in order to recharge.

When it comes to relationships, INFJs take commitment seriously and rarely have casual flings. They yearn to be understood, but finding someone who understands their complex nature is not an easy task. Fortunately, when they do find that person, INFJs have many desirable qualities, but their aversion to conflict can sometimes cause problems.

Ideal date: Embrace your cultural side and grab two tickets to a show at the theatre.

Best matches: ENTP: So Visionary & ENFP: So Curious.


  • Reflective
  • Dedicated
  • Thoughtful
  • Creative


  • Oversensitive
  • Perfectionists
  • Stubborn
  • Conflict-averse