50 of the Best Sexy Text Messages

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Welcome to the world of sexy text messages! Whether you’re looking to surprise your significant other or spice up an existing conversation, sending a naughty message can be a great way to add some fun and excitement to your relationship. With just the right combination of words, you can make any moment special and create lasting memories with your loved one. So why not take this opportunity to express yourself in a unique and intimate way? If you’re ready for it, let’s explore all the possibilities that sexy texting has to offer!

If you’re keen to spice things up or just want to remind your partner of how attractive you find them, but if you’re stuck on where to begin, then look no further. We’ve got example messages for you to use as inspiration and tips on how to make sure you’re nailing it and really getting the blood pumping. Before you know it, you and your texting partner will be enthralled in a hot and heavy text back-and-forth, and you’ll be reminded just how much chemistry you have.

Why are sexy text messages important?

The power of words is amazing. With just a few simple messages, you can bring out emotions and feelings that might have otherwise been difficult to express in person. Sexy texts make it easier for people to show affection and appreciation towards one another, as well as help keep the spark alive, even when physical intimacy is not an option. As such, they are invaluable tools in maintaining a healthy relationship.

Additionally, sexy text messages allow couples to explore their sexuality without any pressure or judgment, providing a safe space where partners can express themselves freely and openly. Whether the goal is to flirt, create anticipation, or simply tell someone how much they mean to you – there’s nothing like a naughty message to get your point across.

If you’re not in a relationship with your sexy texting companion, then it can simply be a great way to explore your sexuality and have fun.

Sexy text messages for him

1. I’m wearing that sexy little black number you love me in. Wish you were here to see it.

2. I miss having your arms around me.

3. I’m wearing your shirt, and it smells like you.

4. I’ve been in bed all day, thinking about you…

5. I’m freezing right now. I wish you were here so you could warm me up. 

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6. I want to be close to your body, to feel its warmth and explore every little corner of it.

7. I don’t know why I bothered making my bed this morning. I’m only going to mess it up with you later tonight.

8. What do you think about women making the first move?

9. I can’t decide if this outfit is too revealing. Can I send you a photo and you give me your opinion?

10. Do you want to take a guess at what we’d be doing right now if you were over at mine?

Sexy text messages for her

11. I’m so distracted by you, even in my thoughts. Could you stop being so damn hot for a second?

12. I’ve wanted you from the very first moment I laid my eyes on you.

13. I was thinking about you in the shower this morning.

14. I’m so turned on thinking about seeing you later.

15. No matter how many cold showers I have, I still can’t get you off my mind.

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16. I can’t stop looking through those pictures you sent me. You look so sexy.

17. Tell me what you’re thinking about right now because I know what I’m thinking about…

18. Somehow, you get sexier every damn day.

19. I can’t stop thinking about that time in [insert place name] when we did that very naughty thing. When can we do that again?

20. I have a surprise for you. I can only show you in person, though. Are you free tonight to receive your gift?

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21. I forgot to get you a present, so I have some other things in mind.

22. I miss feeling your body close to mine.

23. I like distracting you from work. What are you thinking about now?

24. On a scale from one to ten, you are an eleven. Just thinking about you takes my breath away.

25. You have no idea how beautiful and irresistible you are.

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26. My bed feels lonely without you.

27. I can’t wait to spend the whole weekend with you. You make me so unbelievably happy.

28. I just want you to know that you are the sexiest person in any room.

29. Just the thought of you is enough to make me smile in the middle of whatever I’m doing. You’re my favorite distraction.

30. Just wanted to send you a text to let you know I’m thinking about you before I fall asleep. You’re the last thought on my mind, sexy.

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31. My heart rate speeds up when I look into your eyes – you drive me wild.

32. You’re so hot that even my pants are falling for you.

33. I hope your day is as cute as your butt.

34. Congratulations. You’ve officially stolen my heart. Your reward is waiting for you, ready to be collected in the bedroom.

35. You’ve got a very important meeting in the diary tonight. 8 pm. You and me. Our bedroom. Don’t be late. Or else!

If you come over later, I have one rule and one rule only: no clothes allowed.

36. What’s on your to-do list today? I think you need to add me to it.

37. I really can’t be bothered to go to the gym today. Want to help me work out instead?

38. I like your clothes, but I prefer it when you don’t wear them.

39. If you come over later, I have one rule and one rule only: no clothes allowed.

40. Can you do me a favor? Stop looking so sexy in your pictures. Otherwise, I won’t be able to stop staring at them.

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41. I was thinking about you in the shower this morning.

42. I can’t stop thinking about last night. I’m having trouble concentrating at work.

43. I’m turned on just thinking of you.

44. I wish you were here with me right now. Naked.

45. I could tell you what I want to do with you, but I’d rather show you tonight.

My mind has been running wild all day thinking about all the things I'm going to do to you later. I hope you're ready.

46. What’s the first thing you’re going to do to me when you get here? I want to know the details too.

47. I can still taste you on my lips. You taste so good.

48. My mind has been running wild all day thinking about all the things I’m going to do to you later. I hope you’re ready.

49. If you were lying next to me right now, I can guarantee we wouldn’t be getting much sleep.

50. I’m thinking about your lips. Your hands. Your body. Every inch of you that I want to explore. I wish you were here next to me right now.

How to send sexy text messages

These sexy text messages are a perfect way to light up your partner’s day. Why not send your special someone a sexy text during their work day or in the evening to let them know you’re thinking of them? And why stop at text messages? They can be video messages, voice notes, or even hand-written letters. You could also leave them little random notes in their coat pocket or under their pillow.

A personal touch can go a long way in showing your partner that you care and love them deeply. So the next time you’re thinking about someone special, try sending them a sexy text message and make their day. For more guidance on how to use sexy text messages, check out How to Flirt by Text: Tips and Examples.

Sexy text etiquette

So now you’ve got some inspiration for your next sex text message, and you’re ready to hit ‘send,’ but before you do, we’ve got some final suggestions for etiquette when it comes to sending sexy text messages.

1. Timing is everything.

When it comes to sexy text messages, timing is important. As in how often you send a text, how quickly you respond to a text, and when you text. It all matters! Don’t bombard your special someone with sexy texts throughout the day, especially if they’re not replying. Be aware that you can come across as desperate or overbearing if you send too many sexy messages. For a sexy text conversation to flow, both parties need to be in the right mood, so try to gauge whether your sexy texting partner is feeling it.

You also might want to pay attention to how long you are waiting to reply to them. You want to make sure you’re not waiting too long to reply, so they don’t lose that naughty frame of mind. But a bit of a wait in between your messages can keep things interesting. There’s something to be said for delayed gratification when it comes to sexy texts.

2. Be yourself.

As always, it’s important to be yourself. Don’t be afraid to show your personality and let your unique sense of humor shine through. Just because your messages have a sexy vibe, it doesn’t mean that humor can’t play a role at all. Don’t feel like you need to be a certain type of person when texting them. It’s great to mix up those saucy, naughty texts with a little bit of humor every now and then.

3. Be creative.

When it comes to sending sexy text messages, it’s always good to keep things interesting. If you can, send a mix of longer and shorter messages, as well as texts with just words and also some with images or GIFs. Doing this will keep the conversation varied and engaging.

4. Be respectful.

Always remember to respect boundaries when sending a sexy text message. Even if it is a consensual conversation between two adults, you still need to bear in mind that you’re getting personal and intimate with someone, so you need to tread carefully. Keep it respectful, and make sure not to cross any lines or make anyone uncomfortable with the content of your message. Keeping an eye on your tone is part of staying respectful. The tone of your message can make all the difference when it comes to romantic texting. Make sure you use suggestive but respectful language in order to avoid any misunderstandings or hurt feelings.

4. End on a high.

Lastly, if you don’t want it to move to full-on sexting, how might you end a convo? Again, that’s the beauty of text-based flirting. You can simply stop replying! Or, if you want to keep things courteously open-ended, you can tell them you must go now but that you’ll text them later or look forward to hearing from them.

No matter how you decide to end your sexy conversation, make sure that you leave the person feeling positive and excited for the next one. A great ending is a surefire way to keep the spark alive and ensure that your conversations stay flirty and fun. So get creative and have some fun with it. After all, that’s what flirting is all about.

Share this post to help others send sexy text messages

So there we have it: 50 of the best sexy text messages. As you can see from this post, there are so many ways to flirt with someone. Whether it’s a simple “, I miss having your arms around me” or a passionate “I could tell you what I want to do with you, but I’d rather show you tonight,” there’s no end to how you can make them feel wanted.

We hope you found this helpful and that you can use this knowledge to remind yourself of how easy it is to send a good, naughty text to the person you love. It only takes a second, and it can make their day and put a smile on their face. Showing your appreciation for the special person in your life is vital to any relationship. After all, who doesn’t love to get a random, sexy text out of the blue?

Finally, don’t forget to share this post with your friends and followers – you never know who else might need some inspiration for their next sexy text message.

If you enjoyed these sexy text messages, you might also enjoy 50 Romantic Good Night Messages For Her or 50 Flirty Good Morning Texts For Her.

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