63 Love Affirmations to Attract the Relationship You Want

65 love affirmations to attract the relationship you want

Do you have a history of toxic partners or dating people who just aren’t right for you? Well, you should know that you aren’t alone and you’ve come to the right place. We have good news for you. Love affirmations can help you attract the love you deserve.

As well as bringing more love into your life, affirmations for love will help you accept yourself and make you realize that you are worthy of love.

Love affirmations in a nutshell

Affirmations are positive statements that you say to yourself to help you believe in yourself and achieve your goals. They can be about anything, such as your abilities, your appearance, or your relationships. Love affirmations are used to attract love into your life.

Repeating affirmations can help you change your thinking patterns and improve your self-confidence.

And yes, they do work!

Affirmations work by first programming the mind with a new thought or belief. This new thought or belief is then repeated over and over again, which helps to embed it into the subconscious mind.

The subconscious mind is what controls our actions and behaviors, so once the affirmation is embedded, it will start to manifest in our lives.

How love affirmations work in practice


The basis of using love affirmations to attract your dream partner is that positive thoughts lead to positive actions which increase your chances of bringing love into your life.

Thinking in this way increases your motivation. If you expect to find love, you are far more likely to go on dates and be open to new relationships.

Additionally, if you approach relationships with a positive attitude, you’ll be much more likely to open up and be vulnerable which is essential for forming a strong connection and falling in love.

Being optimistic is a highly attractive quality too and you’ll be more resilient if things don’t work out. Maintaining a positive mindset when it comes to love is a win-win situation.

On the flip side, if you don’t expect to find love, you’ll have far less desire to get out there and meet new people and if you do meet potential partners but you’re convinced you won’t find love, you are more likely to self-sabotage. For example, you might turn down dates out of insecurity or engage in negative self-talk.

Ultimately, science suggests that if you believe you can achieve something, you are far more motivated to put in the work to make it happen and this certainly applies to attracting love.

Tips for using love affirmations

You can use affirmations for anything you want to change or manifest in your life. You just need to ensure that you are repeating them on a regular basis.

Some people find it helpful to repeat affirmations out loud, while others find that repeating them in their head works better.

The most important thing is to be consistent with your affirmations and to make sure that you are saying them with feeling and belief. Here are some tips for making your love affirmations work as quickly as possible:

1. Make sure your affirmations are specific in what you want to achieve. Our 63 love affirmations below should help you work out exactly what you what when it comes to attracting love.

2. Feel the emotion of love as you say repeat your affirmations and really believe them to be true. The more emotion you can put behind your affirmations, the more powerful they will be. Practice feeling loved and content.

2. Choose a handful of love affirmations from the list below and write them down. Putting your affirmations down on paper makes them more tangible and concrete, which can help you better focus on them and increase their effectiveness.

3. Repeat your affirmations regularly. The more often you repeat your affirmations, the more likely it is that they will start to become a part of your subconscious belief system. Aim for at least once a day, but twice or three times per day is better.

4. Visualize your affirmations. Another way to make your affirmations more powerful is to pair them with positive visualizations. Imagine yourself being surrounded by love, and let the affirmation help drive that image home.

5. Use affirmative phrases. To really drive your affirmations home, use affirmative statements such as “I can” or “I will” like in our list of love affirmations below. These phrases instill a sense of confidence and certainty that can help increase the effectiveness of your affirmations.

6. Be patient. Don’t expect results overnight. It may take some time to see results, but if you’re patient and you keep at it, you will eventually start to see the changes you desire in your life. The more you believe in your affirmations, the more likely it is that they’ll help you achieve your relationship goals.

Remember, attracting love begins with your beliefs. So start using affirmations today, and see what they can do for you!

Why self-love is the first step to attracting a healthy relationship


Self-love is the first step to attracting love because if you don’t love yourself, you will subconsciously reject it from others. This is because deep down you will feel like you’re not worthy of receiving love.

If you have low self-esteem, you will accept treatment that is less than you deserve. You will struggle to set healthy boundaries and voice your needs.

Self-love is the foundation for any healthy relationship. When you love yourself, you are able to set boundaries and communicate effectively. You also have a sense of worth that allows you to choose relationships that are supportive and empowering.

If you’re not there yet, don’t worry. Over time, love affirmations can lead to improved self-esteem and a greater sense of well-being.

Ultimately, you need to be happy and confident in yourself before you can accept love wholly from another person. Only then will your relationships grow from a place of positivity and security.

63 affirmations for love  

Here are 63 love affirmations that will help you attract the right relationship for you.

1. I am open to receiving love.

2. I deserve to be loved.

3. I am worthy of love.

4. I am lovable.

5. I am full of love.

6. I give and receive love freely.

7. I am surrounded by love.

8. I am grateful for the love in my life.

9. I attract love into my life effortlessly.

10. I radiate love.

11. I am worthy of a happy, healthy, and exciting relationship.

12. I am in control of my love life.

13. I release any and all fears or limitations around love.

14. I feel confident and optimistic about my love life.

15. I am ready to give love freely.

16. I am open to meeting new people.

17. I am grateful for the love I receive.

18. I am surrounded by people who love and support me.

19. I lead a life full of love and happiness.

20. I allow myself to be loved fully and completely.

21. I am a powerful creator of my own reality.

22. I love myself unconditionally.

24. I am deserving of love.

25. I attract loving, healthy, and supportive relationships into my life.

26. I let go of my doubts and embrace the excitement of my future.

27. I am surrounded by kind, reliable and loving people.

28. I easily build deep connections with others.

28. I allow myself to be vulnerable with others.

30. I open myself up to love and intimacy.

31. I experience great joy and happiness in my relationships.

32. I think, speak, and act from a place of love.

33. I am kind, caring, and loving to myself and others.

34. I fill my life with love and happiness.

35. I attract respectful, kind, and committed partners.

36. I release past hurt.

37. I let go of all resentment.

38. I attract only positive and uplifting people into my life.

39. I give and receive love from a place of warmth and kindness.

40. I detach from any and all drama.

41. I choose to live a life full of love and happiness.

42. I let go of all bitterness.

43. I move on from the past and focus on the present.

44. I am at peace with myself and others.

45. I radiate compassion.

46. I am a magnet for love.

47. I attract positivity.

48. I let go of my fears.

49. I am deserving of love and happiness.

50. I am worthy of a partner who respects, appreciates, and adores me.

51. I am confident that I will receive the love I deserve.

52. I let go of my anger.

53. I cherish and respect myself and others.

54. I am kind, compassionate, and loving.

55. I fill my life with positive and uplifting relationships.

56. I let go of all toxic relationships.

57. I love and accept myself just the way I am.

58. I grow and learn from every relationship.

59. I am whole and complete just the way I am.

60. I focus my energy on loving people.

61. I am grateful for the loving relationships in my life.

62. I am ready to meet my soulmate.

63. I only attract healthy, fulfilling relationships.

Final thoughts on love affirmations


Now we have shared our love affirmations, you can see that a lot of them are about self-love and that is intentional.

When you love yourself and are confident that you are worthy, you will naturally set boundaries that protect you from being manipulated, taken advantage of, or otherwise treated in a way that is less than loving.

Self-love doesn’t mean that you never put yourself in uncomfortable situations or that you don’t do things for other people. It does mean, however, that you are always aware of your own needs and feelings and make sure that they are being met.

If you find yourself in a situation where you don’t feel comfortable or respected, it’s important to speak up and set a boundary. This can be as simple as saying “no” or walking away.

Always remember that you deserve love

Love is one of the most powerful emotions we can experience and everyone deserves to be loved. It has the ability to change our entire outlook on life.

As humans, we naturally crave connection and intimacy which is exactly what you get from love. Love is also a very strong force and, not only can it bring positivity to our lives, it can also help us overcome difficult challenges or situations.

In fact, love is one of the most basic needs we have as human beings. If you’re confident and happy in yourself, it will feel good to give and receive love.

You can read our ultimate guide to personality type compatibility if you want to learn which personality types you are most compatible with.

So, what are you waiting for? Start using our love affirmations to increase your positive feelings about yourself and your relationships. The more you practice, the better you will feel!

And if you do start using them, be sure to let us know how they work for you. We’d love to hear all about it. In the meantime, keep on spreading the love!

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