ESFJ: So Supportive!

ESFJs are great at connecting with others. They’re highly adept at picking up on social subtleties and instinctively notice things like body language and tone of voice. ESFJs are very aware of social boundaries. They know exactly what behaviour is acceptable and tailor their behaviour to meet the needs and expectations of people around them. This makes them great hosts and, being highly organised, they often take the lead in organising get togethers.

ESFJs are loyal and empathetic. They absorb other people’s emotions. When their loved ones are happy, they’ll feel their happiness as if it’s their own, and when their loved ones are sad, they’ll often feel similarly. ESFJs will go above and beyond for the people they care about.

Relationships come naturally to ESFJs. They are people-orientated and take commitment seriously. ESFJs very much appreciate the feelings of security and stability that come with healthy relationships. They’re affectionate and loyal, which are qualities that are often valued by partners. But ESFJs can find it hard accepting criticism and can be needy, which sometimes causes friction in relationships.

Ideal date: Create some magic by putting your culinary skills and tasting techniques to the test at a cookery class.

Best matches: ISTP: So Practical & ISFP: So Artistic.


  • Personable
  • Practical
  • Empathetic
  • Organised


  • Overly values external validation
  • Inflexible
  • Too selfless
  • Oversensitive