INTP Compatibility & Relationships

INTP compatibility, relationships and love

INTP relationships

In relationships, INTPs are honest and they value intellectual conversation. They are sharp and reserved individuals who love to learn and dig deep into all kinds of topics.

INTPs are most compatible with partners who challenge them. They are one of the most independent personality types and they need space in relationships. INTPs are unique individuals and it’s rare for them to meet people who they truly click with.

INTP compatibility chart

INTP compatibility chart

Our INTP compatibility chart lets you know which personality types are the most and least compatible matches for INTPs. Ultimately, INTPs work best with partners who are intelligent and creative.

They are unconventional people who place little importance on traditions such as Valentine’s Day and giving gifts.

INTPs appreciate people who understand this about them, along with their other complexities. They work best with people who aren’t needy and give them freedom.

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INTP dating

INTPs are candid and direct when dating. They appreciate the same in return and they’re not ones to play games…in fact, there’s nothing worse they can think of as they see them as a waste of time.

Understanding emotions doesn’t come naturally to INTPs, whether it’s their own emotions or their partner’s.

INTPs tend to take relationships seriously and they’re not ones to enjoy casual dating.

INTP strengths in relationships

The following strengths are typical of INTPs:

1. Easy-going. INTPs have simple needs and excessive superficial gestures are a turn-off for this personality type. They are relaxed and adaptable, which draws people to them, particularly those who are more highly strung as it offers a good balance. INTPs aren’t one to start an argument just to create some drama and they find high-maintenance people hard work.    

2. Creative. INTPs are original and creative. They are exceptionally talented at solving problems, especially conceptual challenges which mean they are well placed to come up with original solutions to problems. It also means that INTPs are skilled at seeing things from unique angles.

3. Loyal. INTPs are deeply loyal in relationships. Seeing as they are so independent, INTPs don’t waste their time dating people with whom they don’t feel a strong sense of connection. Plus, they rarely find meaningful connections and when they do, they take treasure them because it happens so infrequently. 

4. Open-minded. INTPs are open-minded and non-judgmental. They respect different points of view, as long as they can be backed up by logic. INTPs are one of the least traditional personality types and they don’t judge people by material factors such as owning expensive cars or having a stereotypically successful job.

INTP weaknesses in relationships

The following weaknesses can be typical of INTPs:

1. Difficulty reading people. INTPs can find it hard to understand other people’s emotions. They’re not particularly skilled at picking up on their partner’s needs. It’s not that they don’t care by any means, it’s just that they don’t notice. For example, they might not make a big deal out of their partner’s birthday even though it’s important to them.

2. Very private. INTPs are extremely private individuals. They often feel uncomfortable sharing their feelings and it takes people of this personality type a long time to open up. INTPs certainly feel love, and they feel it deeply, but they prefer to keep their feelings inside and find it hard to express them openly, even if they want to. 

3. Impractical. INTPs can be impractical. Things like paying bills and keeping on top of the washing up can fall by the wayside for INTPs. They tend to avoid day-to-day practical matters as they find them boring. INTPs can make a conscious effort to stay on top of life admin though.

4. Avoid conflict. INTPs sometimes avoid conflict. This is because they know they might have to deal with their partner’s emotions and this can be extremely uncomfortable for INTPs. If a conflict does arise, they will analyze it in a logical manner and try to resolve things logically.

INTP love

INTPs fall in love slowly. They are picky when it comes to partners and they’ll clearly know whether they want to spend more time with someone, but they usually won’t fall in love for a while.

INTPs enjoy figuring things out, including their love interests. They often use personality type frameworks, such as 16 personalities or Enneagram, to help them understand someone. 

INTP flirting

INTPs are not flirty people. They hate playing games and if they could, they’d skip the flirting and move straight to a meaningful relationship with someone that they connect with on a deep level.

If an INTP likes someone, they’ll be interested to learn more about them and they’ll also help them try to solve problems.

INTP sexual energy

INTPs have a quietly intense nature and this translates to their sex lives too. They don’t tend to have casual sexual partners and sex means a lot more to them when it’s with someone with whom they share a deep connection.

Sexual attraction goes beyond the surface for INTPs and they don’t tend to be attracted to people because of looks alone. Seeing as they can find it hard to express their emotions, sex can be a way of strengthening a bond for this personality type.

INTP communication

INTPs have a lot going on inside their heads and it can take them a while to work out how they want to express something. They like to think before they speak and sometimes come across as detached.

INTPs are precise with their words; they’ll have logic and reasoning behind their opinions. When having conversations, they tend to focus on the big picture rather than on small details.

INTP best matches

Not sure if you or your partner are an INTP? You can take our INTP personality test for free today. INTPs are open-minded and loyal individuals who value meaningful connections. In order to be attracted to someone, INTPs must respect them on an intellectual level.

So who is an INTP most compatible with? ENFJs and ENTJs are the best matches for an INTP.

1. INTP – ENFJ relationships (soulmate compatibility): INTPs are attracted to the friendly, empathetic, and warm nature of ENFJs. ENFJs can help INTPs understand emotions, both their own and other people’s. ENFJs are attracted to the grounded, rational, and adaptable nature of INTPs. INTPs can help ENFJs see things from a different point of view.

2. INTP – ENTJ relationships (soulmate compatibility): INTPs are attracted to the ambitious, intellectual, and decisive nature of ENTJs. INTPs are full of novel ideas and ENTJs can help turn them into reality. ENTJs are attracted to the original, easy-going, and down-to-earth nature of INTPs. INTPs can be the perfect sounding board for ENTJs because they are often exceptionally intelligent.

INTP compatibility with all personality types

We have comprehensive guides to the compatibility of INTPs with each type. Click the links below to read each one:

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