ENFJ: So Giving

ENFJs are generous people who can always be relied on for advice and support.

They are exceptionally talented at reading people and instinctively understand social dynamics. ENFJs pick up on subtleties in social situations that most people would be hard-pressed to notice, and they can even understand other people’s needs before they’ve worked them out for themselves. 

“Work hard, be kind, and amazing things will happen.”

Conan O’Brien

ENFJs have a unique combination of charisma, enthusiasm and communication skills that make them natural leaders. They truly care about the development of the people around them and are generous in giving up their time to help those in need. This is partly why ENFJs have hectic social calendars and sometimes overcommit themselves. 

Famous ENFJs

  1. Oprah Winfrey
  2. Barack Obama
  3. Meghan Markle

Best matches


ENFJs take relationships seriously and are not the type to date around. Their sociability and supportive nature mean that they feel most comfortable when they are in a committed relationship, although ENFJs need to be careful to maintain their sense of self. Sacrificing their own needs for a partner might enable them to avoid conflict in the short-term, but it’s rarely an effective long-term strategy. 

Ideal date

Laugh your way through learning to sip and savour wines at a local vineyard.


Helping others and doing good in the world are hugely important to ENFJs.
ENFJs can’t stand letting other people down and always follow through.
ENFJs have a magnetic charm, many friends and know how to work a room.
ENFJs have a positive outlook on life that helps them achieve their goals.


ENFJs sometimes use their exceptional people skills to influence people.
The willingness of ENFJs to help can result in them overstretching themselves.
Too selfless
ENFJs can end up adversely putting other people’s needs before their own.
ENFJs have a strong innate desire for harmony and often avoid conflict.

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