ESTJ: So Dedicated

ESTJs are dedicated individuals who take great pleasure in bringing order and structure to their surroundings.

They are methodical and feel most comfortable when there are established procedures in place. If there aren’t existing protocols, ESTJs will quite happily take the initiative to implement them. 

“Good order is the foundation of all things.”

Edmund Burke

ESTJs have an unmatched work ethic. They are strong believers in following rules, as they’re very aware that they mostly exist for the broader benefit of society. They are well suited to leadership roles in community groups, which combines their organisational skills and their love for bringing people together. 

Famous ESTJs

  1. Michelle Obama
  2. Frank Sinatra
  3. Alec Baldwin

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When it comes to relationships, ESTJs appreciate security and stability. They’re family-orientated people who strongly value tradition, particularly when it comes to their home lives. ESTJs usually apply their planned nature to their relationships, but this can sometimes come across as controlling. Dealing with emotions can be challenging for this type and they’re sometimes seen as insensitive. 

Ideal date

Show off your knowledge of useless but entertaining information at a trivia night. 


ESTJs direct their time, attention and energy to achieving their goals in life.
People can count on ESTJs to be straightforward and give an honest opinion.
ESTJs follow through on promises with actions and people can trust them.
ESTJs enjoy order and take responsibility for putting dates in the diary.


ESTJs sometimes try to take over situations and control the outcomes.
ESTJs’ inability to adapt to situations can sometimes hold them back in life.
ESTJs’ directness of can unintentionally lead to hurting people’s feelings.
ESTJs can be quick to criticize without good reason and jump to conclusions.

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