INFJ: So Thoughtful

INFJs have a mystical air about them that many find intriguing and their desire to help others is a core part of who they are.

They are the rarest personality type. One of the unique qualities of INFJs is that they’re able to translate their visions into carefully considered plans, and then take steps to execute them. 

“Who looks outside dreams; who looks inside awakes.”

Carl Jung

INFJs are exceptionally talented at reading people. They can often sense someone’s mood the moment they walk into a room, which is a both a blessing and a curse. It plays a part in why INFJs are so empathetic and kind, but it can also be overwhelming. Despite being people-orientated, they often require considerable amounts of alone time, shielded from the emotions of others, in order to recharge. 

Famous INFJs

  1. Carl Jung
  2. Cate Blanchett
  3. Nelson Mandela

Best matches


When it comes to relationships, INFJs take commitment seriously and rarely have casual flings. They yearn to be understood, but finding someone who understands their complex nature is not an easy task. Fortunately, when they do find that person, INFJs have many desirable qualities, but their aversion to conflict can sometimes cause problems. 

Ideal date

Embrace your cultural side and grab two tickets to a show at the theatre. 


INFJs take time to think things through and don’t jump to conclusions.
If INFJs believe in something, they will be completely devoted to that cause.
INFJs spend a significant amount of time looking after other people’s needs.
Coming up with new ideas and ways of doing things comes naturally to INFJs.


INFJs can be sensitive to criticism and can see it as a personal attack.
The idealistic nature of INFJs means that they are always striving for perfection.
Once INFJs have decided something, it can be hard to persuade them otherwise.
INFJs tend to avoid conflict because they place so much value on harmony.

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